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三毛的这段文字是温暖的,浪漫里透着几许辛酸。在我们懵懵懂懂的青春岁月里,曾与它不期而遇,被故事里守望的天使深深打动,甚至留下真诚的泪。当青春已经远去,当我们即将成为或者已经成为故事里的天使,把这段文字再次读起,温暖还在,感动依然。但除了温暖和感动,时间和阅历还教会了我们去思考:天使该不该守望?该不该放弃自己的人生去守望?放弃自己的人生去守望孩子的人生是奉献的无私,是为人父母责任的驱使,还是对自身生命完整性和独立性的漠视?这种守望对孩子又意味着什么?他们会认同吗?他们会不会因为在天使的翅膀下太久,而不会独立飞翔了呢?父母到底应该在孩子的生命中扮演怎样的角色?不同年龄段、不同家庭背景、不同受教育程度、不同人生经历的父母或准父母们,他们的看法是否有差别?差别在哪里?为什么会有这种差别呢?……
The text of San Mao is warm, a bit sour in the romance. In our ignorant youth, I met with it by accident, deeply touched by the angels watching in the story, and even left sincere tears. When youth is gone, when we are about to become or have become the angels in the story, read the passage again, warmth is still moving. But in addition to warmth and touch, time and experience also taught us to think: Angels should watch? Should not give up their own life to watch? Give up your life to watch the child’s life is dedication of selfless, is a parental responsibility , Or indifference to the integrity and independence of their lives? What does this watch for children mean? Will they agree? Will they not fly alone for too long under the wings of angels? What kind of role should parents play in their child’s life? Are parents or prospective parents of different ages, family backgrounds, educational levels and life experiences different? Where are the differences? Why What’s the difference?