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陈先生 45岁外资公司经理说到比较,现在的升学压力、学习竞争让我们家长忍不住要拿自己的孩子去和别的孩子比较,只有通过比较才能了解孩子在班级里、学校里的真实情况,从这点上来说, 不比不行呀。但是我也知道,有时候我们比较的方法有问题,很可能是为了自已的虚荣心, 伤害了孩子的自尊心。另外,平静下来想想也发现,往往总是进行横向比较,其实纵向比较一下,就发现孩子在努力进步了。我想对孩子说,如果以前爸爸有说错的地方,希望你可以原谅。比较其实并不是坏事,你也可以自己试着比比看,找找自己的缺点和优点,看看对你是不是有帮助。
Mr. Chen 45-year-old manager of foreign-owned companies Speaking of comparison, now the pressure of further studies, competition in learning so that our parents can not help but take their own children to compare with other children, only through comparison can understand the children in the class, the real school From this point of view, it is better than no. However, I also know that there are sometimes problems with our method of comparison, most likely due to their own vanity and hurting their children’s self-esteem. In addition, calm down and think also found that often horizontal comparison, in fact, longitudinal comparison, we found that children are working hard to improve. I would like to say to my child that if my father used to be wrong, I hope you can forgive me. More is not a bad thing, you can also try to compare their own look, find their own shortcomings and advantages, to see if it is helpful to you.