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一、厌学情绪产生的原因1.家长的过高要求与期望。当前,社会竞争日益强烈,巨大的社会竞争压力也影响到家庭教育。很多家长都有“望子成龙,望女成凤”的期待,一味地只看重学生的考试成绩,所以对孩子的成绩抓得特别紧。家长期望值过高,但教育方法又欠妥,总是对学生的学习成绩百般挑剔,孩子的学习只要稍不如愿,就责骂痛打,使之产生强烈畏惧心理,而迁怒于孩子。久而久之,把本来饶有兴趣的学习视为不堪忍受的苦事,造成孩子对学习的厌烦甚至恐惧的心理。2.缺乏应有的关爱和辅导。大部分父母外出打工,托付给亲戚、朋友。这些孩子他们得到的仅仅是
First, tired of school emotions 1. Parents over expectations and expectations. At present, the social competition is getting stronger day by day. Huge social pressure of competition also affects family education. Many parents have “look of hope, look woman into the Phoenix ” look forward, blindly only focus on the student’s test scores, so grasping the child’s results particularly tight. Expectations of parents are too high, but their educational methods are flawed. They are always picky about the academic performance of their students. When their children learn less, they scold and cheat, resulting in intense fear and anger on their children. Over time, the originally interested in learning as unbearable pain, causing children to learn boring or even fear of psychology. Lack of due care and counseling. Most parents go out to work, entrusted to relatives and friends. What these kids have got is just me