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我在村里的祖辈已经不多了。当父辈们开始进入养老的年龄后,在与他们聊天时总能感觉到,他们对于“老”所具有的那种恐惧感,从生理、心理上都透露出某种衰败的意味。这种意味会在容颜、语言、心态、处事方式等等多个方面表现出来。不过,最大的衰败应该来自于日常生活中那种自言自语的孤独。这种孤独好像和后辈隔了一个世纪,不管后辈在不在身边,都是那么有距离感。子女不在身边,自然没地方倾诉孤独;子女在身边,也没有人愿意倾听他们的孤独。
My ancestors in the village are running out. When their fathers start to reach their retirement age, they always feel the same sense of fear they have about the “old” people, physically and psychologically revealing some decay. This kind of meaning can appear in appearance, language, attitude, way of doing things and so on. However, the biggest decline should come from the kind of loneliness in everyday life. This kind of loneliness seems to be separated from the younger generation by a century, no matter if the younger generation is not around, they feel so distanced. Children are not around, naturally no place to talk lonely; children around, no one is willing to listen to their loneliness.