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教育孩子的最佳方法,依我所见,应遵循我的朋友向我推荐的因果理论:任何一个行为都会产生一个后果,如果你坚持这个行为,那么,必然要承担其后果。他认为,不同年龄段的孩子其实都想知道:父母对他们有什么要求,如果违抗父母的命令,等待他们的将是什么后果。而当父母坚持原则、规则明确时,孩子学到的东西最有效。我的儿子天性开朗、活泼好动,玩起来常忘乎所以,致使他总往大街上跑。这让我大伤脑筋,于是我决定试试朋友的方法。
The best way to educate children, as far as I can, is to follow the causal theory my friend recommended to me: Either behavior has a consequence, and if you insist on it, you have to bear the consequences. In his opinion, children of all ages want to know in fact: what their parents ask them if they violate their parents’ orders and wait for their consequences. When parents insist on principles and rules, the children learn what is most effective. My son was cheerful, lively and active, often forgetting about it, causing him to run down the street. This made me a big headache, so I decided to try my friend’s method.