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有些宝宝似乎天生就有一种“特有问题”(Special have a Problem,简称SHAP),不但难教养也难沟通。要想改变SHAP宝宝并不容易,究竟用什么方法来应对宝宝的那些“特有问题”呢?方法就是接纳SHAP宝宝的特质,再给予适当的应对策略。SHAP-1:不肯收拾玩具的宝宝作为父母,在面对满地满床堆得一塌糊涂的玩具时,你总是会用“你再不收拾,我就再也不给你买玩具”来警告宝宝,但就是纠正不了宝宝不肯收拾玩具的老毛病。此时,你应该怎么做呢?
Some babies seem to be born with a “special have a Problem” (SHAP), not only difficult to teach nor difficult to communicate. To change the SHAP baby is not easy, what is the way to deal with the baby’s “unique problem”? The method is to accept the SHAP baby’s traits, and then give the appropriate coping strategies. SHAP-1: Unable to clean up your baby’s toys As a parent, you always use “You do not pack up, I will never buy toys for you” Warning baby, but it is not correct the baby refused to clean up the toys old problems. At this point, what should you do?