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每一个有情感的人都喜欢交朋友。我想,人生不能没有朋友,就如不能没有空气一样。朋友在哪里?朋友就在你的身边。我所尊敬的一位老领导曾说:最好的朋友,就是你周围的同事。我觉得他说得深刻而有哲理。一天24小时,我们至少有三分之一的时间是与同事相处在一起。朝夕与共,同事对你的长处短处、优势劣势、个性品质等等,看得最真切,了解最清楚。他若能与你成为朋友,帮助你扬长避短,对你的道德完善、事业成功,都能起促进作用。朋友的价值,就是帮助你发现和实现自身的价值,与你并肩而立,携手共进。在这一点上,同事应该成为好朋友。人与人之间友情的永久或暂时、深刻或浅显是因人而异的。由于性格、脾气和修养不同,每个人为人处世的方式方法也各异。作为朋友,我们对别人不必吹毛求疵,更不要把自己的观点强加于人。金无赤金、人无完人,而且世界上也没有两个人是完全相同的。建立友谊,就是要在交往中求同存异,从各不相同的个性中找到共性的东西,这样,再难相处的同事也将变成你的朋友。友情不能刻意追求,也不是神来之笔。它是人们在社会活动中所构成的一种相互依存、相互支持、互不分离的情感。他们之间共有一条始终坚持
Every emotional person likes to make friends. I think life can not be without friends, as can not be without the same air. Where are friends? Friends are on your side. An old leader whom I respect has said: The best friend is the colleague around you. I think he is profound and philosophical. 24 hours a day, at least a third of our time is with colleagues. Day and night, my colleagues strengths and weaknesses of your strengths and weaknesses, personality and so on, see the most real, understand the most clear. If he can become friends with you to help you avoid weaknesses and improve your moral integrity and your career, you can all play a catalytic role. The value of friends, is to help you find and realize their own value, and you stand side by side, work together. At this point, colleagues should be good friends. The permanent or temporary, profound or superficial friendship between people varies from person to person. Because of their personality, temper, and accomplishment, each man’s way of doing things differently. As friends, we do not have to be nitpicked about others, let alone impose our own opinions. There is no gold without gold, no one is perfect, and no two people in the world are exactly the same. To establish friendship means to seek common ground while reserving differences and find commonalities among different personalities. In this way, colleagues who are difficult to get along also become friends with you. Friendship can not be deliberately pursued, nor is it superficial. It is an interdependent, mutually supportive and inseparable emotion that people form in their social activities. A total of one between them has always insisted