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世上的母亲都是爱自己孩子的,但各有各的爱护方式。我们可以将她们分成以下几类: 对手型:她们希望显示自己的能力,与子女一争高低。喜欢与孩子的朋友交往,甚至与花季女儿争相卖俏。这样的母亲有时让人感到有趣,但是大部分情况下这样是危险的,虽然女儿知道自己比妈妈年轻,但内心深处还是会对母亲的张狂行为感到嫉妒,怀疑其可靠度,感受到威胁,并对母亲产生厌恶情绪。敏感型:她们对孩子们总是很挑剔,要求很多。她们的口头禅是:别走远,呆在这儿!对于孩子们做的事情,她永远不会感到满意。如果母亲总是把子女当做不能自立的小孩的话,那么孩子就很难建立良好的自信心。
The world’s mothers love their children, but each has its own way of care. We can divide them into the following categories: Counterparts: They want to show their ability to compete with their children. Like to interact with their children’s friends, and even competing with the seasons daughter sell pretty. Such mothers sometimes make people feel funny, but in most cases this is dangerous. Although daughters know that they are younger than their mothers, they still feel jealous of their mother’s insanity, suspect their reliability and feel threatened, And aversion to the mother. Sensitive: They are always very picky about children, demanding a lot. Their mantra is: Do not go away, stay here! She will never be satisfied with what the children do. If the mother always treats her child as a child who can not be self-supporting, then it is very hard for children to build good self-confidence.