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妻子的弟弟最近学习成绩不好,岳父母全家都十分着急。看到妻的愁眉,我建议妻把弟弟接来住,由我们对他进行家庭辅导。妻弟在来我家前是由妻妹代管的,她的教育方式我早已有耳闻。据说妻妹对小弟管教十分严厉,完不成作业就不准小弟吃饭,即便写完作业,也不准看电视,并且小弟一旦有错,妻妹就予以斥责,有时还动手体罚。这样,小弟对学习有了恐惧心理,有问题也不敢问,性格也越来越内向封闭。记得妻弟的期末评语班主任是这样写的:你只是躲在教室的一角,不动也不出声,别人都不了解你。其实,你知道,老师是多么想了解你呀。勇敢点儿,多和老师、同学交流,你一定会受到大家的欢迎的……
His wife’s brother recently poor academic performance, the parents are very anxious parents. To see the frown of his wife, I recommend that his wife pick up his brother live, by us to our family counseling. My brother-in-law came from my wife and sister before coming to my house, and I’ve heard about her way of teaching. It is said that his wife and sister are very harsh on the management of the younger brother. If he can not finish his homework, he will not allow his younger brother to eat. Even if his homework is finished, he is not allowed to watch television. Once his brother is wrong, his wife and sister will be rebuked and sometimes corporal punishment. In this way, the younger brother has a fear of learning, there are questions not to ask, the character is more and more introverted. Recalling the end of his wife’s comment class teacher wrote: You just hide in the corner of the classroom, not moving or silent, others do not understand you. Actually, you know how much the teacher wants to know you. Brave, more and teachers, students exchange, you will be welcomed by everyone ...