惩罚的七条原则

• 作 者: 聂勇军
• 出 处: 幼儿教育
• 发表日期: 2003年04期
• 关键词: 七条 时间观念

国外有本名为《父亲手册》的书,具体阐释了惩罚的七条原则,值得家长借鉴。一是一旦犯错就要处罚。如果孩子生气时把一片玻璃打碎,虽非故意,你也要教育他这是他的过错。他虽然没有料想到自己行为的后果,但他仍要负赔偿之责。二是耍把你的要求对孩子讲清楚。你先要定下你的要求,他犯了再惩罚,不可不教而罚。三是在惩罚之前,先对孩子警告,他必须改正自己的行为,否则就会受到惩罚。一两次警告就会让孩子警惕。

Abroad has this book entitled “Father’s Handbook”, specifically explained the seven principles of punishment, it is worth learning from parents. First, once mistakes are punished. If the child is angry when a piece of glass break, though not intentional, you have to educate him it is his fault. Although he did not anticipate the consequences of his actions, he still had to take the blame. Second, make your request clear to your children. You have to set your request, he punished again, must teach and punish. Third, before punishing, warn children that he must correct his actions or he will be punished. One or two warnings will alert your child.