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编辑同志:我的儿子3岁了,是个老实的孩子,在幼儿园里经常受小朋友的欺负,有时手或脸还被抓破了。遇到这种情况,家长应该怎么办?哈尔滨李声李声同志:一般来说,幼儿正处于社会化的初期,在维护自我与接纳他人的过程中难免会有纠纷,甚至可能有攻击性行为。所以,当孩子在幼儿园受了欺负时,家长应该与幼儿园老师取得联系,了解事情发生的经过。并告诉孩子:“我们不可以欺负别人,但是别人欺负我们时,要保护自己。你可以躲开,也可以与人理论,甚至还手抵抗。否则你会受伤,会痛,妈妈也会难过!”
Editor’s Comrade: My son is three years old, an honest child, often bullied by children in kindergarten, and sometimes the hand or face is also scratched. In this case, parents should be how to do? Li Sheng, Harbin Li Sheng Comrades: In general, children are in the early stages of socialization, in the process of self-protection and acceptance of others will inevitably have a dispute, and may even have offensive behavior . So, when a child is bullied in kindergarten, parents should get in touch with the kindergarten teacher to understand what happened. And tell the child: “We can not bully others, but when others bully us, we must protect ourselves, you can dodge, you can also fight theory, and even fight back otherwise you will hurt, pain, mom will be sad! ”