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人有追求快乐的本能,所以当面对痛苦的时候,总是表现出极大的不情愿,本能地想要逃避。孩子也是如此。但是“痛苦”又是人必然要经历的。人生不可能只是一种节奏,有变化,就会有不确定性,也就会有不适应。对于发展中的孩子来说,尤其如此。《成长之疼》的作者的女儿就因为面对小学升入中学的变化,而经历着“成长之疼”。升入中学,对于孩子来说是一件好事,因为升入中学就意味着自己成了高年级的大孩子,孩子期盼着。但是与之同时发生的,是课业量的增加。面对孩子因为对中学生活不适应产生的
People have the instinct to pursue happiness, so when faced with pain, they always show great reluctance and instinctively want to evade them. The same is true for children. But “pain ” is the inevitable experience of man. Life can not be just a rhythm, there are changes, there will be uncertainty, there will be not suited. This is especially true for developing children. The daughter of the author of “The Pain of Growth” is experiencing “the pain of growing up” in the face of the change of elementary school to middle school. Getting into high school is a good thing for kids, because going to high school means becoming a big kid in high school and looking forward to seeing them. But at the same time, there is an increase in the amount of homework. Face children because of high school life does not adapt to produce