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电影《非诚勿扰2》里面李香山那句台词:“婚姻怎么选择都是错,长久的婚姻就是将错就错。”此话,琢磨起来,似乎有些道理,可是细细品味,却又道出了婚姻中人心底里不可诉说的对现实的无奈、认命及悲观的心理状态。如果在对婚姻的态度上,抱着这样的心理,或者认同这个“台词”的观点,那么在婚姻里又如何心甘情愿地去经营呢?当一个人是迫不得已地去面对自己选择的“错误”婚姻时,一定不会真情用心去经营自己的婚姻,又如何能产生发自肺腑的幸福感呢?
The movie “You Are the One 2” inside Li Xiangshan lines: “marriage how to choose are wrong, long-term marriage is wrong. ” This remark, pondering, it seems that some truth, but savoring, but also revealed the marriage In the bottom of my heart can not tell the reality of frustration, fate and pessimistic state of mind. If in the attitude of marriage, with such a psychological, or agree with this “line ” point of view, then how willing to marry in the business? When a person is compelled to face their own choice “False ” Marriage, will not be the true intentions to run their own marriage, and how can produce a sense of happiness from the heart?