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问:我的儿子性格很脆弱,遇到点困难就想退缩。在学校和同学闹点不愉快或挨了老师批评,第二天就不想上学;学钢琴一段时间就再不想学了。看了孩子这点“出息”,我心里真是忧心!请指点我,怎样培养孩子坚强的性格呢? 答:你的心情我很理解。坚强的性格对人生十分重要,因为这种性格品质直接关系着一个人的智力发展。那么家长们应该怎么做呢? 制定合理目标。家长应根据孩子的年龄特点,为其制定短期和长期两种目标,短期目标要具体明
Q: My son’s character is very fragile and he wants to retreat when he encounters difficulties. In the school and students downtown unpleasant or suffer teacher criticism, do not want to go to school the next day; learn the piano for a period of time do not want to learn again. Looked at the child this “good news”, my heart is really worried! Please give pointers to me, how to cultivate the child’s strong character? A: I understand your mood. Strong character is very important to life, because this character is directly related to a person’s intellectual development. So what should parents do? Set a reasonable goal. Parents should set their short-term and long-term goals according to the children’s age characteristics. Short-term goals should be specified