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教育孩子懂礼貌,是早期教育的一个重要组成部分。日本儿童毕恭毕敬地鞠躬,非洲儿童发自内心的问候,欧洲儿童的屈膝礼,都是尊重和欢迎他人的标志。我们不能回避规矩和礼貌,但是我们可以决定,在教育孩子时,哪些是重要的,应该教给孩子,哪些是孩子通过观察和模仿,可以从周围的人那儿学到的。从婴儿期始,孩子就开始学习规矩和礼貌了。尽管大多数的父母并没有意识到他们是在教孩子这些东西。举个例子说,当一个吃母乳的孩子,用力咬妈妈的乳头时,妈妈作出的反应是疼痛和惊奇,她抽回乳头,把孩子从怀里放下,也许还要喝斥几句。实际上,她这时已经在教育孩子要尊重别人了,用不着对孩子反复说明。婴儿以这种方式就学会了遵守规矩。
Teaching children to be polite is an important part of early education. Japanese children bowed with compliments, the greetings from African children and the curtsey of European children were all signs of respect and welcome. We can not shy away from rules and courtesy, but we can decide what is important when teaching a child, what should be taught to the child, and what can be learned from the people around by the child through observation and imitation. From infancy, children begin to learn the rules and courtesy. Although most parents do not realize they are teaching their children these things. For example, when a child who was breastfeeding severely bit the mother’s nipple, her reaction was pain and surprise. She pulled her nipple back, lowered her child from her arms, and perhaps drank a few more words. In fact, she now has to educate her children to respect others, and does not need to repeatedly explain to her children. In this way the baby learns to follow the rules.