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择偶观指的是人们对择偶问題的看法和态度。它大致可以分为三个方面:①什么时候择偶?即理想的谈恋爱和结婚年龄问題。这个问題上的两种对立观点是早恋早婚观和晚恋晚婚观。②求什么样的偶?即配偶的理想模式问題,这又可分为求偶的相对标准和求偶的价值定向问題。前者指的是,对于同一标准,男女之间谁高谁低的问题。例如,在年龄上,一般倾向于男大女小。这种男大女小就是择偶年龄上的相对标准。后者指的是择偶标准上的价值观,如有人以德为主,有人以经济地位为主等等。③以什么样的方式求偶。有人主张自由恋爱,有人主张由媒人来牵线搭桥,有人主张遵从父母之命。下面,我们依此顺序来依次分析择偶观的三个方面。我国早婚早恋的历史和现状
The concept of mate selection refers to the people’s attitude and attitude toward mate choice. It can be roughly divided into three aspects: ① when to mate? Ideal dating and marriage age. The two opposing views on this issue are the concept of early marriage and the concept of late marriage and late marriage. What kind of couple? Seek the ideal model of spouse, which can be divided into the relative standard of courtship and courtship value orientation. The former refers to the same standard, who is high and low who questions. For example, men tend to be older when they are older. This male and female children is the relative standard of age mate. The latter refers to the standard of spouse selection values, such as someone based on virtue, someone based on economic status and so on. ③ What kind of courtship? Some people advocate free love, some people advocate matchmaking by the matchmaker, some people advocate compliance with the orders of their parents. In the following, we analyze three aspects of mate selection in turn in this order. The History and Current Situation of Early Marriage in China