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孩子有了恐惧心理后,有的父母以为孩子得什么病了,有的束手无策,还有的则干脆认为孩子的恐惧不是真的。但是大多数孩子的恐惧不安不仅是真的,而且是其成长过程中必然要经历到的。心理学家说:对一个4岁的孩子来说,操场上的滑梯就象有一英里那么长,甚至使他却步。—位妇女还记得她小时候害怕在黑暗里睡觉的情景,当时她母亲说她是胆小鬼,迫使她关了灯睡觉,这样却使她更加害怕。有些父母确实因孩子的恐惧不安而忧虑,但是,由于父母不恰当的回答,无形中加深了孩子的
After the children have the fear, some parents think that the children get sick, and some are helpless, while others simply think the child’s fear is not true. However, most children’s fear and anxiety are not only true, but also inevitable to their growth. Psychologists say: For a 4-year-old child, the slide on the playground is as long as a mile and even discourages him. - A woman remembered her being afraid to sleep in the dark when she was a kid, when her mother said she was a coward who forced her to turn off the lights, which made her even more scared. Some parents are really worried about their children’s fear and anxiety. However, due to their parents’ inappropriate answers, they have virtually deepened their children’s