难得雅量

• 作 者: 李隆汉 焦秀兰
• 出 处: 思维与智慧
• 发表日期: 2002年09期
• 关键词: 恩斯特 谢石 世说新语 不逞之徒 大人先生 晋人 谢玄 誓死捍卫 艺术批评家 党的领袖

当一个曾经伤害过你的人，情愿或不情愿地走到你的跟前，恳求你的谅解，或祈求你的帮助，而你则报以宽厚的微笑，主动地伸出友好的双手。这就是雅量。在唇枪舌剑之际，分明是你理占上风，力处优势，你却适可而止，不逼人太甚，给人留点面子，让出一条退路。“得饶人处且饶人”

When someone who has hurt you comes to you willingly or unwillingly, earnestly pleads for your understanding, or pray for your help, and you, with a generous smile, take the initiative to extend your friendly hands. This is magnanimity. In the verbal tongue and swords, it is clear that you dominate the upper hand, strength advantage, you are enough, do not force too much, give people stay face, give up a retreat. “Forgive and forgive”