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生活是一本大大的书,必须让孩子原汁原味地自己品读。父母有关善恶的要点讲解、观点引导,往往会不得要领。十一假期,15岁的儿子要出门旅游。听闻此事的妹妹好心提醒我:“姐啊,你可一定要教教非非,出门在外如何辨认好人与坏人!”我笑了笑:“这好与坏,哪有那么明确的评判标准?只能他自己去感知了。”记得儿子刚上小学的时候,我曾经告诫他,不要随便和陌生人说话。然而,我又不忘提醒他:当你遇到困难时,要学会及时求助,世界上还是有很多好心人的。儿子反问我:“妈妈,那我到底要不要和陌生人说话啊?”我顿时语塞。
Life is a big book, you must let the children reading their original taste. Parents explain the essentials of good and evil, point of view guide, often can not get essentials. Eleven holidays, 15-year-old son to go out to travel. Sister heard this matter kindly remind me: “sister ah, you have to teach the right and wrong, how to identify good and bad people go out! ” I smiled: “This is good and bad, how can it be so clear Judging criteria? Only to his own perception. ”“ Remember my son just arrived in elementary school, I have warned him, do not just talk to strangers. However, I did not forget to remind him: When you encounter difficulties, to learn to seek help in time, there are still many good people in the world. My son asked me: ”Mom, then I really want to talk to strangers ah? " I suddenly speechless.