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大到国家之间的谈判,小到生活中随便说几句话,都会涉及到有理没理。任何人都愿意自己是有理的,或处于有理的一方。不过,谁在结果上有理,并不等于另一方就没理,只是自己比对方更有理。理多理少,是以自己的正确成分为基础的。世上百分之百的正确恐怕没有,百分之百的错误也难见到。谁是不是更有理,并不能简单地依赖自己的正确,因为对方也正确。自己的正确成分不会自动地等于自己更有理。自己更有理,需要把自己正确的东西变成自己的理。标准有些争议永无结论,总也不见分晓,或者不了了之。如果我们遇见这样的情况.对自己是没有好处的。一方丽,自己成不了更有理的那一方:另一方面,事情本身的进展停滞了。自己无论有理没理,都没获得真正的利益,甚至还会有一定的损失。在今天的世界里,谁对谁错,可以用多得数不清的标准来衡量。用不同
Big negotiations between countries, small to life just say a few words, will involve unreasonable. Anyone is willing to be rational or on the rational side. However, who is rational in the outcome, does not mean that the other party did not care, but more rational than the other. Reason and less, based on their correct composition. I am afraid that the correct one hundred percent of the world, one hundred percent of the errors are hard to see. Who is not more rational, and can not simply rely on their own right, because the other is correct. Your own correct composition does not automatically equal yourselves. They are more rational and need to turn their own right things into their own management. Some controversial standards There is no conclusion, the total did not see the outcome, or can not stop it. If we meet such a situation, it is not good for ourselves. One side, Li, can not become a more rational one on his own: on the other hand, the progress of the matter itself has stalled. Regardless of their own ignorance, they have not gained real benefits, and even have some losses. In today’s world, who is right and who is wrong can be measured by a myriad of criteria. Use different