怎么说 孩子才会听

• 作 者: 平燕婷 王淑英
• 机 构: 华东师范大学,
• 出 处: 时尚育儿
• 发表日期: 2014年09期
• 关键词: 小表弟 对我说 配合性 家庭教育 训练阶段 自我意识 发展心理学 事要 慢半拍 换鞋

一封妈妈来信为何孩子对我说的话,总是充耳不闻?我家孩子两岁多,上幼儿园小小班,是个调皮的男孩,很有自己的主见,他有想要达到的愿望时,很难改变他的想法。但让我特别头疼的是,他对成人的配合性特别差,让他干什么的时候,他总是充耳不闻。我开始觉得可能孩子还小的缘故,但发现很多其他同龄孩子并不这样。比如,让他扔个垃圾,他不理你,管自己玩;我让他的小表弟扔,小表弟倒是很配合。又比如,快出门的时候,让他自己把鞋换好,他也只顾自己玩,直到

A mother wrote a letter to me why my child always said nothing to me. My child, who is two years old and has a small class in kindergarten, is a naughty boy with a strong opinion. He has a hard time changing his desire to achieve The idea. But what struck me a lot is that he always turns a deaf ear to what he does to adults when he is particularly poorly matched. I started to think that children might be younger, but I found that many other children of my age did not. For example, let him throw a trash, he ignored you, play their own control; I let his little cousin threw, the little cousin touches well. As another example, when you go out, let him change his shoes, he also only play on their own until