不要因爱而伤害孩子

• 作 者: 冯永平
• 出 处: 家长
• 发表日期: 2012年12期
• 关键词: 一遍遍 小强 精神生活 兴趣班 心理疾病 讲道理 相对自由 出生后 思维逻辑 李君

关心孩子、理智地爱孩子也是家长不可推卸的责任。案例一:女孩糖糖出生后,她受到了家长的过分宠爱。早晨起床,妈妈会替糖糖穿衣、洗脸;吃饭时,妈妈会把她的碗筷提前摆好;糖糖要出门上学,妈妈会替她系鞋带,替她背书包。有一天,糖糖回到家带着哭腔对妈妈嚷道:“坏妈妈,坏妈妈,都是你,让我在同学面前出丑,让同学嘲笑我!”妈妈一头雾水,仔细一问才知道,下午上体育课的时候,糖糖的鞋子掉了,她因为不会系鞋带,遭到了同学的嘲笑。

Caring about children, rational love of children is also an important responsibility of parents. Case 1: girl sugar after birth, she was overpared by parents. When I get up in the morning, my mother will dress for sugar and wash her face. When eating, my mother puts her dishes in advance. Sugar and sugar go out to school, and my mother will fasten her laces for her. One day, sugar sugar came home with cried to his mother shouted: “bad mother, bad mother, are you, let me in front of classmates ugly, let my classmates laugh at me! ” Mom confused, carefully asked Know that in the afternoon on the physical education class, sugar candy shoes out, because she will not tie the shoe, was the students laughed.