孩子的耳朵也需要放松

• 作 者: 思之
• 出 处: 家长
• 发表日期: 2012年12期
• 关键词: 电视新闻 学龄期 可真 这一天 她说 给你 鸟叫 信息传递 正面激励 毫无意义

你确实需要孩子认真听你说,所以你必须仔细地考虑该如何把你想传递给孩子的信息传递给他,从而避免你们之间的无效交流。你是不是发现,孩子的耳朵可真灵敏,每次你和别人的私密谈话,他都会听到,甚至还会记住。相反,每次你真的需要他认真听你谈话时,他的耳朵好像又不那么管用了。你是不是常常抱怨:“哎,现在的孩子真难教育,说了也不听,不说又不行。”

You do need your child to listen carefully to you, so you have to think carefully about how to pass on the information you want to pass on to your child so as to avoid ineffective communication between you. Did you discover that your child’s ears are so sensitive that he will hear and even remember each time you talk to someone in private. Instead, his ears seem less useful each time you really need him to listen carefully to your conversation. Do you often complain: “Hey, now the children really difficult to educate, said do not listen, do not say no.”