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几乎每个孩子,一听到继父母这个称呼。即刻在头脑中闪现出来的就是白雪公主那妖魔般的后妈,很坏很坏……不论那后爸后妈是谁,心底涌起的总会是拒绝、对立,甚至仇恨。 我在学校“心语屋”就接待了这样一个孩子。 “老师,我早就想告诉您我的家事……”一个个子不高,衣着相当“朴实”的小女孩刚在我对面坐下,话还没说完就泣不成声了。我任她哭了一会儿,递了张纸巾给她,她擦干了伤心的泪水。 “还想哭吗?”她摇摇头。“那就说吧,什么事让你这么伤心?”我看着她轻声问道。 “老师,您一定要帮我,我真的不知怎么办。” “心里有什么不开心的事知道来找老师,这很好,老师一定会尽力而为,但是最终还是要靠你自己的。”她点了点头。我接着说:“你说吧,是怎么回事?”
Almost every child, I heard the name of stepfather. Immediately in my mind is flashed out that demon-like stepmother Snow White, very bad very bad ... no matter who is the father of my stepmom, my heart will always be rejected, confrontation, and even hatred. I received such a child in the school “heart language house.” “Teacher, I have long wanted to tell you my family ... ...” A tall, pretty well-dressed little girl just sat down across from me and said nothing before she burst into tears. I let her cry for a moment, handed a tissue to her, and she wiped the sad tears. “Do you want to cry?” She shook her head. “Then say, what makes you so sad?” I looked at her softly asked. “Teacher, you have to help me, I really do not know what to do.” “What is not happy to find a teacher to know the teacher, this is good, the teacher will do his best, but in the end depends on your own. She nodded. I went on to say: ”You say, what’s going on?"