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数年前,我担任一年级班主任。第二学期开学伊始,班里转来一个眉眼俊俏、扎着条长辫子的新生。看到孩子的名字——许贵山,我不由自主地嘀咕了一句:“一个女娃娃怎么起了个男性化的名字?”家长听后笑着说:“老师,他不是女娃娃,是男娃娃。”接着,他向我解释:“家里男娃娃金贵,曾发生过男娃娃被拐事件。为了防止小山被人拐走,我们特地给他留了长头发,扮成女娃娃。”听了家长的介绍,我很理解但又担心这样会影响孩子的心理,然而小山父亲对我的话并不在意,只说孩子自己不肯剪。几天过去了,我发现小山每天都和女生扎堆在一起玩,却很少和男生接触,就连与同桌男生都很少说话。这更引起了我的重视,我打算从小山的辫子人手,由外及内改变他的性别认同观。恰在这时,小山的母亲找到我,让我说服孩子剪掉辫子,因为她上厕所时发现小山靠在边上偷看。问他为什么不走开,他竟说:“我也是个女孩呀!”这时,家长才意识到问题的严重。我想,与小山相处最多的是同学,能否借助他
A few years ago, I was the first grade teacher. Beginning of the second semester at the beginning of the class, turn a handsome brow, wearing a long braid freshman. See the child’s name - Xu Guishan, I involuntarily muttered a sentence: “A maid doll played a masculine name? ” Parents heard a smile and said: “Teacher, he is not a girl, is a man Doll. ”Then he explained to me: “ In the home male doll Jin Gui, there have been male dolls were abducted incident .In order to prevent the hill from being abducted, we specially gave him long hair, dressed as a doll. ”After listening to the introduction of the parents, I understand but worry that this will affect the child’s psychology, but the hill father did not care about what I said, only said the child refused to cut. A few days later, I found the hill and girls get together every day to play together, but rarely touch with boys, even with the boys at the same table rarely speak. This has drawn my attention even more. I intend to change his gender identity from outside and inside by braids from the hills. Just then, the hill’s mother found me, let me persuade the child to cut off the braids, because she found the hill peeking while peeing. Asked why he did not go away, he actually said: “I am also a girl!” At this time, parents realized that the problem is serious. I think, most students get along with the hill, can help him