打孩子,真的是为了孩子好吗?

• 出 处: 健康管理
• 发表日期: 2015年11期
• 关键词: 坐公 分离焦虑 三四 伤痕累累 亲子关系 创伤后应激障碍 公共场合 心理伤害 物质滥用 生理伤害

坐公交车时,我看到一个三四岁的小朋友哭闹,大概原因是不愿意去幼儿园。在我看来,这个年龄段的小朋友,正处于分离焦虑的体验时期,不愿意和父母分别,拒绝投入一个相对陌生的环境,是再正常不过的。但孩子妈先生气了,对着孩子他爸喊了起来:“你也不管管!”孩子他爸倒是挺有执行力,

When I took the bus, I saw a three or four year old friend crying, probably because of reluctance to go to kindergarten. In my opinion, it is normal for children in this age group to be in an experience of separation from anxiety. They are not willing to distinguish themselves from their parents and refuse to engage in a relatively unfamiliar environment. But the child mother angrily, his father shouted at the child: “You do not care! ”