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很多家长反映现在的孩子个个都是小暴君,稍不如意就火冒三丈,又哭又闹,发脾气简直成了家常便饭。面对孩子的这种情况,家长们束手无策,或是以更大的怒气制止孩子,或是小心翼翼地顺着孩子。其实对付孩子发脾气,还要从根源入手,寻找孩子发脾气的真正原因,不同的情况采取不同的方法,绝不可一概而论,始终迁就或始终高压制止。如何应对孩子发脾气看似小事,实则关系孩子一生的发展。学前期是儿童社会性发展的关键期,很多行为习惯都是此阶段形成和培养的,所以不可小看孩子发脾气的行为。本文试着从儿童心理学角度出发,结合一些案例,分析孩子发脾气的可能原因,并提出相应的对策。从儿童心理学的角度来分析,可以将孩子发脾气的原因归为三种类型: “条件型”、 “情感型”和“社会型”。
Many parents reflect the children now are all small tyrants, a little unhappy on the fury, crying and joking, temper has simply become commonplace. Faced with this situation of children, parents are helpless, or with greater anger to stop the child, or carefully follow the children. In fact, deal with the child angry, but also from the root cause, looking for the real reason for the child temper tantrums, different situations take a different approach, must not be generalized, always accommodate or always stop high. How to deal with the temper of the child seems trivial, but in fact the development of the child’s life. Pre-school children are the critical period of social development, many of the behavioral habits are formed and nurtured at this stage, so do not underestimate the child’s temper behavior. This article tries to analyze the probable cause of losing temper of children and put forward corresponding countermeasures from the perspective of children psychology, combining with some cases. From the perspective of children’s psychology, we can classify the causes of children’s temper into three types: “conditional”, “emotional” and “social”.