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中午下班回家,有点口渴,桌上正好有一瓶饮料,我拿起来就喝。7岁的女儿见状,一把夺过我手中的饮料,气哼哼地说:“谁让你吃的,这是我的饮料。”然后不依不饶地哭着让我赔,任我怎么劝都劝不住。我的心像被针尖猛地刺了一下,生疼生疼的。这孩子怎么会变得如此自私呢?我不禁不寒而栗。冷静下来仔细想想,孩子之所以变得如此自私,都是我和爱人过分溺爱、娇纵的结果。孩子是家里的独苗,我们把希望和爱全部倾注在孩子身上,孩子有什么要求,我们总是尽量去满足她。就拿吃的来说吧,家里虽然并不富裕,但孩子想吃什么,我总是不论价格买回来,然后全部交给她,大人从来都舍不得“染指”。爱人对她也是百依百顺、言听计从,完全成了家
Go home from work at noon, a little thirsty, just a bottle of drink on the table, I picked up to drink. 7-year-old daughter, seeing a drink grabbed my hand, angrily said: “Who let you eat, this is my drink.” And then indecisively let me cry, any How can I persuade me to persuade? My heart was like a sharp stabbed needle point, raw painful. How can this child become so selfish? I can not help but shudder. Calm down and think about it, the reason why children become so selfish, are spoiled by my lover and spoiled results. Children are the only children in the family. We devote all our hopes and love to children. What are the requirements of children? We always try to satisfy her. Take it for granted, although the family is not rich, but what children want to eat, I always buy regardless of the price, and then all to her, adults never want “naught.” Love is also obedient to her, listen to the subject, completely into a home