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所谓“羞涩’(shyness),在国人看来,似乎是儿童和少女的“专利”心态,而且还朦胧地折射着一种含蓄美。其实,以上认识如果不是愚味的,至少也是无知的——读了本文我们会得出这样的结论:羞涩,是一心理障碍,而且并不随着年龄的增长而自然消除,更有甚者,在现实生活中,息这种心理障碍的人比我们想象的要多得多: Often mistakenly regarded as a childhood stage that people outgrow (因长大而自然摆脱),skyness is surprisingly widespread. 也许是笔者孤陋寡闻,在我们的书店里很少见到有“克服羞涩”为主题的小册子,而在美国则不为鲜见,仅本文就列举了4册！而美国人中患羞涩心理障碍的人数对我们来说简直是一个天文数字: … and found that approximately 40 percent of this sample describedthemselves as shy.… places the figure at 48 percent.That could mean that about 117 millionpeople-nearly half of all Americans-are shy. 羞涩无药可治,却有法可疗: 1.记录羞涩,寻根探源 下面这句话初读费解,再读则让人深思: We know more about ourselves than we think we know.(我们比想象的更了解我们自己。)因为:… and it’s often surprising what comes out when we write down our thoughtsand fe
The so-called shyness seems to be a “patented” mentality for children and adolescents in the eyes of the Chinese people, and it also visibly reflects a subtle beauty. In fact, if the above understanding is not ignorant, it is at least ignorant. - After reading this article, we will come to the conclusion that shyness is a psychological barrier, and it does not naturally disappear with age. What is more, in real life, people who suffer from this kind of mental disorder are better than we think. There are many more: often mistakenly regarded as a childhood stage that people outgrow (skyrise is surprisingly widespread.) Perhaps the author is ignorant and rarely sees “overcome shyness” in our bookstores. The pamphlet of the theme is not rare in the United States. This article only lists four volumes! The number of shy people with mental disorders in the United States is an astronomical number for us: ... and found that approximately 40 percent of This sample describedthemselves as shy.... places the figure at 48 percent.That could mean that about 117 million people-nearly half of all Americans-are shy. There is no medicine to cure, but there are methods to treat: 1. Record shyness, seek roots to explore the source The following sentences are difficult to read for the first time, and reading makes people think deeply: We know more about homemade than we think we know. Know more about ourselves.) Because:...and it’s often hit what comes out when we write down our thoughtsand fe