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我一位朋友喜欢抱怨,他总觉得公司不好、老板太差、同事打混摸鱼、社会太混乱,他过得非常痛苦。有一次,岳父来他家坐,他老婆不在,所以他毫无顾忌,对岳父数落老婆的缺点。岳父脾气很好,只是微笑听着,并没有替女儿辩驳。“很抱歉,我女儿给你添麻烦了。”岳父温和地说。我的朋友,突然被岳父点醒了,明白了老婆的体贴,发现她的优点,也开始包容她的缺点。他有心改变,逐渐以正面的角度看待事情,慢慢的,他才明白,这世界似乎没有那么可憎。
One of my friends likes to complain. He always feels that the company is not good, the boss is too poor, his colleagues are fractious, the society is too chaotic, and he is very painful. Once, his father came to his house to sit, his wife is not, so he has no scruples, the shortcomings of his wife count wife. Father-in-law temper good, just listen to smile, and no argument for her daughter. “I’m sorry, my daughter has trouble you. ” Father said softly. My friend, suddenly awakened by his father-in-law, understood his wife’s thoughtfulness, discovered her strengths and began to tolerate her shortcomings. He changed his mind, and gradually take a positive view of things, slowly, he realized that the world seems less abominable.