夫妻吵架是门艺术

• 作 者: 刘波
• 出 处: 农民文摘
• 发表日期: 2016年11期
• 关键词: 已婚夫妇 夫妻感情 日常琐事 婚姻咨询 朋友家 情绪影响 马修 表达情绪

传统观念中,相敬如宾的夫妻是人们学习的楷模,但两口子整日生活在一起,难免出现磕磕碰碰。其实,夫妻吵架不一定是坏事。学会吵架的艺术,不仅能够解决问题,还能增进感情。美国一项研究发现,绝大多数夫妻争吵的原因都是一些鸡毛蒜皮的小事,例如睡觉抢被子、菜做咸了、某件家具如何摆放、打鼾等等。已婚夫妇平均每年会因为日常琐事发生167次争吵。争吵原因虽然很小,但如果不能正确处理,往往会引发激烈的矛盾,最终影响夫妻感情。

Traditional concept, respectable couple is a model for people to learn, but the couple live together all day, it is inevitable that bump. In fact, the couple quarrel is not necessarily a bad thing. Learn the art of quarrel, not only to solve the problem, but also to promote feelings. A United States study found that the vast majority of couples quarrel for some trivial things are trivial, such as sleeping quilt, salty dishes, how to place a piece of furniture, snoring and so on. On average, married couples make 167 quarrels each year because of their daily routine. The reason for quarrel is very small, but if it can not be dealt with correctly, it often leads to fierce contradictions which will eventually affect the feelings of the couple.