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一位朋友年逾六旬,喜好旧体诗。我们一起讨论时,他对诗词的格律总是固执己见,认为旧体诗可以撇弃声韵的限制。我费尽口舌,竟惹来他的不恭之辞。结果自然是不欢而散,我究竟没能说服他。事后感到自己很失败。明明他错了,为什么反遭斥责?这么执拗的个性,今后如何与之相处?想来想去,还是觉得他过于执拗。执拗的原因还在于阅历广、经验丰,容易产生“过的桥比你走的路还多”优越感,导致自恃心理。自
A friend of more than sixty days, like old poetry. When we discussed together, he always held a firm opinion on the law of poetry, thinking that the old-style poem could abandon the limits of sound and sound. I exhausted his tongue, actually provoked his disrespectful speech. The result is naturally broke up, I actually failed to convince him. Feel very frustrated afterwards. Obviously he was wrong, why counter-blame? Such a stubborn personality, how to get along with the future? Want to go, or think he was too stubborn. Reasons for perseverance is also experience wide, experienced, easy to produce “bridge over your path more than ” sense of superiority, resulting in confidence. from