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据报道,今年2月8日,郑州市农业路交行家属院一个小学五年级的12岁少年川川,上吊自杀。原因是川川不想再拉小提琴。川川已学过两年小提琴,今年春节过后,川川说不想再学了,可他的妈妈则要求孩子再拉半年。于是,悲剧就发生了。孩子的脚下正扔着那把小提琴。平心而论,像川川这种为拒绝家长的“定向培养”而采取过激的轻生行动的情况实属鲜见,但对“定向培养”在思想和心理上有抵触情绪的孩子却较为普遍。作为家长,望子成龙,盼女成凤,指望孩子将来都能成名成家,有个出息,这愿望本无可厚非。但这要根据孩子的具体情况,结合孩子本人的兴趣和爱好,因势利导,
It is reported that on February 8 this year, the Agricultural Bank of China Zhengzhou Agricultural Bank of China Road, a 12-year-old juvenile Kawagawa, hanging himself to death. The reason is that Kawakawa did not want to play the violin again. Kawagawa has learned violin for two years, after the Spring Festival this year, Kawagawa said he did not want to learn again, but his mother asked the children to pull for another six months. So tragedy happened. The violin is being thrown at the foot of the child. In all fairness, such as Sichuan’s radical suicide attempt to refuse parents’ “targeted training” is rare, but it is more common for “oriented training” of mentally and psychologically resistant children. As a parent, the hopeful of Jackie Chan, looking forward to a woman into the feng, hope the child can become famous in the future married, there is a success, this wish nothing wrong. However, this should be based on the specific circumstances of children, combined with the children’s own interests and hobbies, make the best use of the situation,