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的热线咨询中,经常会遇到有些来话者变换各种身份,反复来话咨询性问题,并且每次来话都变换性咨询内容,有的甚至对着电话手淫,咨询员都不愿意接这种电话,有被骚扰的感觉,有的咨询员会委屈、哭泣,有的大怒,告诉对方“我们的电话与公安局连着呢!”这个现象在许多热线常能遇见。有一天,我就接待了这样一位来话者。 开始来话者宣称自己30多岁,科技人员,已婚3年,在中学16岁时就与同学发生关系了,之后开始手淫。大学时手淫次数多,婚后每天性交一次但仍想手淫,问过度的手淫是否有害?说到这里,电话里传来粗重的喘气声,然后是“哎哟!……对不起!”就挂断电话了。这是我第一次接待如此明目张胆、毫不遮掩地对着电话手淫的来话者,心里有气愤并厌恶的感觉,但也同时告诉自己,他有心理问题,
Hotline consultation, often encounter some of the caller to change a variety of identities, repeated calls to consultative issues, and each incoming call is transformative counseling content, and some even on the phone masturbation, counselors are reluctant to take This kind of phone call was harassed. Some consultants wrecked, wept, and furious. They told each other that “our phone is connected with the Public Security Bureau!” This phenomenon can often be met on many hotlines. One day, I have received such a caller. Began to declare their callers more than 30 years old, scientific and technical personnel, married three years, 16 years old in secondary school when the students had a relationship with students, and then started masturbation. University masturbation frequency, intercourse once a day after marriage but still want to masturbation, asked whether excessive masturbation harmful? Here, the phone came heavy gasping, and then “Oh! ... I’m sorry!” To hang up It’s This is the first time I have received such a blatant, unobscussed phone call masturbation caller, I feel angry and disgusted feeling, but also tell myself that he has psychological problems,