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孩子天性里最渴望得到父母的爱和赞赏,如果他们总是从父母那儿得到负面刺激,就会形成“我不够好”的自我定位,会在自卑和没有安全感中挣扎一辈子。最近,我为学中文的老二找课外读物时,在一本中文儿童杂志里发现了一篇男孩的日记。他说妈妈要过生日了,自己很想送妈妈一份特殊的礼物,就是亲自动手为妈妈做顿饭。他觉得炒鸡蛋很容易,并且已经看过妈妈做了很多次,于是决定做个炒鸡蛋。可是,真的开始做菜时却并不是那么容易,打鸡蛋时,他把蛋液洒到了碗外面。点火时也费了番周折,锅里还忘
In the nature of children, they are most desirous of receiving the love and appreciation of their parents. If they always get negative stimuli from their parents, they will form self-positioning of “I am not good enough” and will struggle for life in terms of inferiority and insecurity. I recently found a diary for a boy in a Chinese children’s magazine when I was looking for extra-curricular reading materials for my sophomore studying Chinese. He said his mother had a birthday, and he really wanted to send her a special gift, which she did for her mother. He thought it was easy to scramble eggs and had seen Mom do many times and decided to cook scrambled eggs. However, when really started cooking is not so easy, when playing eggs, he spilled the egg outside the bowl. When the fire also took Fan Zuzhe, the pot also forgotten