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不少父母认为,表扬可以增强孩子的自信心,激励他们取得成就。而美国一部育儿新著认定,表扬孩子要注意方式方法,过多的表扬不利于孩子成长。这部新著名为《育儿震撼:关于儿童的新想法》,由阿什莉·梅里曼和波·布朗森合著。两名作者认为,一些常见的育儿方式存在不妥之处,譬如,父母过多地表扬孩子实际上会阻碍孩子成长。作者说,父母以称赞孩子聪明的方式帮助他们树立自信已成为一种育儿趋势。父母们认为,这有助于孩子取得成就。英国《每日邮报》援引布朗森的话报道:“表扬已
Many parents believe that praise can enhance children’s self-confidence, encourage them to achieve success. The United States, a new child care found that in recognition of children pay attention to ways and means, too much praise is not conducive to the growth of children. Newly known as ”Parental Shock: New Ideas for Children,“ co-authored by Ashley Merriman and Bob Browning. Two authors believe that some common ways of child-rearing exist. For example, over-praising their children can actually hamper their child’s growth. The authors say it has become a parenting trend for parents to help them build their self-confidence by praising their children for their clever ways. Parents think it helps children make a difference. British ”Daily Mail“ quoted Bronson as saying: ”praise has been