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在一次由家长和学生共同参加的座谈会上,学生们在谈到自己心目中理想的父母形象时,几乎是异口同声地说:父母应该首先是朋友。只有建立了朋友关系,有事时才能跟父母说。一位戴着眼镜的女学生向在座的父母建议:请蹲下跟孩子说话。思想感情交流的首要条件是平等。不是将对方放在与自己平等的位置上,而是居高临下,以训斥的口气,不管双方之间是什么关系,交流是难以进行下去的。
At a symposium attended by parents and students, when students talk about their ideal parents’ image, they almost all say in one voice: Parents should first be friends. Only by establishing a friend relationship, when things happen to tell their parents. A schoolgirl wearing glasses advises the sitting parents: Please squat to talk with your child. The first condition for the exchange of thoughts and feelings is equality. Rather than placing each other on an equal footing with one another, they are condescending and rebuking their tone, no matter what the relationship between the two parties is and the exchange is difficult to carry forward.