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现在的孩子大多是独生子女,父母把小孩当成掌上明珠。存在过分注重小孩的身体呵护和知识素养的培养,但是对于孩子的自主能力培养存在明显不足。并不是说当孩子三岁的时候,你就让他要独立。当孩子还分不清楚对与错的时候,父母还是要辅导,但是父母亲要学着慢慢去放手,慢慢地让孩子自己去决策。一、做好“几个不要”1.不要用太多规矩限制孩子的自由。要让孩子去做他自己喜欢做的事。如果你有顾虑,用“共同决定”的方法诱导他。
Most children are now only children, parents, children as the pearl of the palm. Excessive emphasis on children’s physical care and knowledge literacy training, but there is a clear shortage of children’s ability to develop their own abilities. It does not mean that when the child is three years old, you let him be independent. When the child is still not clear right and wrong, parents or counseling, but parents should learn to slowly let go and slowly allow the children to make their own decisions. First, do a good job, “a few do not ” 1. Do not use too many rules to limit children’s freedom. Let the child do what he likes to do. If you have concerns, use the “common decision” method to induce him.