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野合本来是很愉快、很温馨的事情。《诗经·召南·野有死麇》中就有“舒而脱脱兮!无感我帨兮!无使龙也吠!”意思是说:“动作要轻轻的啊,别把我的围裙弄乱了,别把狗儿惊的乱叫。”更文明些的时候,野合就演变为对体制、世俗的一种反抗。它的魅力不在于场地开阔,而在于自我私密的显现方式:既在公众视野之内,又不易发现。一般情况下,真相只能通过偶然的窥视传播出去。公开野合却很难让野合者真正亢奋,因为本来小心翼翼的窥视变成了大胆围观,原本压低嗓音的街谈巷语变成了“权威评说”。从这个层面讲,公开野合也就成为一种苦差使。名人恋爱就是这样一种苦差使,不断遭受干扰、质疑,以及自以为是的裁决。名人谈恋爱需要袒露更多,也需要超强的心理承受能力。尽管被有些人视为淫荡不羁,狂傲无礼,李敖仍不失为男性名人恋爱的榜样。从13岁初恋,到48岁时看到小自己30岁的新意中人,情场上,李敖几乎所向披靡。面对公众讲述自己的情感时,他的姿态也近乎炫耀。而他恋爱的态度,竟然是“爱情不是很永久的,除非两个人殉情死掉”。选择什么样的姿态接受无可逃避的围观,也折射了恋爱中名人的品位和性情。
Wild Goose was originally a very happy, very warm thing. “The Book of Songs · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · ·” there is “Shu and take off Xi! The apron was disrupted, not to scream the dog. ”Even more civilized, Yehhh evolved into a revolt against the system and the world. Its charm lies not in the open space, but in the way of self-expression: not only within the public view, but also not easy to find. Under normal circumstances, the truth can only be transmitted by accidental spying. It is hard to make the wild match wild Truecomer is really excited, because the cautious peep has become a bold crowd, the original voice down the street alley into an “authority commentary.” From this perspective, the public Yehe will become a drudgery. Celebrity love is such a drudgery that continues to suffer disruption, questioning, and self-righteous decisions. Celebrity love needs to be exposed more, but also need super psychological affordability. Although considered by some as lustful and arrogant, Li Ao remains a role model for celebrity males. From the first love of 13 years old, to 48 years old to see their own 30-year-old newcomer, in love, Li Ao almost invincible. In the face of the public about his feelings, his posture is almost flaunting. And his attitude of love, turned out to be “love is not very permanent, unless two people died of martyrdom.” Choose what kind of attitude to accept the inevitable onlookers, but also reflects the love of celebrities in the grade and temperament.