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在夫妻生活的隐秘世界里,有许多烦恼并不是来自生理疾病或技巧,而是源于社会文化灌输给我们的某些观念和意识。当前,妻子对丈夫的性与爱的不满意,正是或暗或明地日益增多,成为一种潜在的婚姻危机之源。一位结婚不久的妻子抱怨丈夫:“结婚以后,你就想着床上那件事,从前的爱情哪儿去了?”但另一位结婚10几年的妻子却发出相反的抱怨:“连那种事都没兴趣,你还说你爱我?!”某心理治疗所的统计表明:在提出离婚的夫妻中,真正原因在于双方性与爱的观念和行为不协调的,占48%。对于性与爱的关系,大约存在4种观点。其一是全面禁欲观。它否认性的享乐功能和对爱情的促
In the secretive world of the life of a couple, there are many troubles that do not come from physical illnesses or skills, but from some of the ideas and perceptions instilled in our society and culture. At present, his wife’s dissatisfaction with her husband’s sexuality and love is precisely, or increasingly, a growing source of marital crisis. A married wife soon complained about her husband: “After marriage, you think about that thing in the bed, where did the old love go?” “But another wife who married for 10 years made the opposite complaint: ” Even the kind of thing is not interested, you say you love me?! "The statistics of a psychotherapy show that: in the proposed divorce of the couple, the real reason is that both the concept of sex and love and behavior uncoordinated, accounting for 48 %. For the relationship between sex and love, there are about 4 kinds of views. One is a comprehensive view of abstinence. It denies sexual pleasure and love