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心理学的研究成果表明,影响一个人一生的因素,遗传作用要占30-40%,后天训练作用要占60-70%。父母要培养好孩子,就必须要注意从先天遗传和后天训练两个方面着手,要善于让孩子通过后天的训练,扬父母之长,避父母之短,使孩子综合素质优于父母,能站在父母的“肩膀上”超过父母,达到“青出于蓝胜于蓝”目标。这既是父母对下一代应尽的责任,大了说也是对我们这个民族更加优化而应尽的责任。由于遗传因素,从小生活的环境,所处的文化背景,接受家庭、学校、社会教育的程度,职业、经历和社会阅历等的不同,必然要影响到父母的性格、心理、语言、气质乃至举手投足等。这其中有许多是优秀的,但是也必然会有一些非优秀的,甚至是低劣的。父母身上存在的先天遗传或者后天形成的,不论良莠都要影响到自己的孩子。因此,在培养孩子成长过程中,父母要善于与孩子一道通过后天的训练和修养,弘扬父母之优,摒弃父母之劣,
Psychological research results show that the impact of a person’s life factors, genetic effects accounted for 30-40%, acquired training accounted for 60-70%. Parents to cultivate good children, we must pay attention to inheritance and acquired training from two aspects, be good at letting children through nurture training, the length of parents, parents to avoid the short, the overall quality of children than their parents can stand In the parents “shoulders ” over the parents, reaching “out of the blue in the blue ” goal. This is not only the responsibility that parents should make to the next generation, but also their responsibility to make our nation more optimized. Due to genetic factors, the environment of a small living environment, the cultural background in which it is located, the degree to which it accepts family, school and social education, occupation, experience and social experience, it inevitably affects the parents’ personality, psychology, language, temperament and even gestures Wait. Many of these are excellent, but there are bound to be some non-good, even poor ones. The genetic existence of the parents or acquired form, whether good or bad must affect their children. Therefore, in the process of cultivating children, parents should be good at working with children through nurturing and training the day after tomorrow to promote the excellence of parents and abandon their parents’