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期中考试,女儿的成绩后退了:原本在年级里前三名的学生,落到了四十多名。我不想当一个特别看重成绩的妈妈,一次考试成绩并不能代表什么。但是难免还会失落。内心波澜起伏,表面上却格外平静。她的老师与我是同事,为我担心:“你怎么跟孩子说呢?”“老师会告诉她的。”我还没想好怎么做,选择后发制人。课下,一个学生来跟我炫耀自己考试得的奖品。女儿随后也过来喝水,匆匆喝了一口,头都不抬,没有如平时表现出对奖品的兴趣,就跑出去了。
Midterm exam, daughter’s performance back: the original top three students in grade, fell to more than 40. I do not want to be a mom with a special emphasis on performance, and an exam does not mean anything. But it will inevitably be lost. Fluctuations in the heart, the surface is exceptionally calm. Her teacher is a colleague with me and fears for me: “How do you tell your children?” “The teacher will tell her.” "I still have not figured out how to do it, and I chose to post a whistle-blower. After class, a student came to show off my exam prizes. Later, the daughter came to drink water, hurriedly drank it without lifting her head and did not express her interest in the prize as usual and ran out.