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因为把脏盘子丢在水槽里这件事,我跟妻子发生了愚蠢的争执,我9岁的儿子奥利弗旁观了这场冲突。我对自己的立场很自信,直到当天晚上送奥利弗上床的时候,他重提了之前的激烈交锋,并一一解释分析了我所没有看到的妻子的立场。他告诉我,在过去的几个月,我妻子的挫败情绪一直在上涨,因为无论多少回她叫我洗干净碟子,我都不会听从。退后一步讲,我儿子给我的反馈显然是正确的,我需要去改变我的方式,对于妻子所为之烦恼的问题,我应该
I had a foolish dispute with my wife because I dropped the dirty plate in the sink, and my 9-year-old son, Oliver, looked down on the conflict. I was so confident in my position that when I went to bed Oliver the same night he reiterated the fierce confrontation and explained and analyzed his wife’s position I had not seen. He told me that in the past few months my wife’s frustration has been on the rise because no matter how many times she told me to clean the dishes, I would not listen. Step back, my son gave me the feedback is clearly correct, I need to change my way, the problem for his wife’s troubles, I should