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香港学前教育讲师陈淑安女士认为:一个孩子往往是这样,别人越说他某方面不行,他在这方面就越不行。对此,我深有感触。上小学的时候,或许是偶然有两次数学考试成绩不够理想,在妈妈的印象中便是这孩子数学不如语文,且在言谈中也时常流露,这便是我偏爱文科而厌理科的开始。由于没有得到正确的引导,喜欢语文,不喜欢数学的概念不断强化,数学成绩平平,且不喜欢上数学课,以致于不喜欢数学老师。相反,一上语文课就特别带劲儿,思想活跃,作文写得好,常受老师表扬,成绩居全班第一。升到中学,进而由对数学不感兴趣发展到对数理化均不感兴趣,虽语文,外语等科成绩优良,却未能考上大学。由此想到,做家长的如不懂得孩子的心理,常会无意中带给孩子消极的暗示。往往是这样,你说这孩子不爱说话,于是这孩子可能更加寡言;说这孩子胆小,会使其更加怯懦,说这孩子不爱吃蔬菜,他干脆
Ms. Chen Shuan, a lecturer in pre-school education in Hong Kong, believes that one child often does this. The more people say that one aspect of his job is not, the worse he is in this respect. In this regard, I have deep feelings. When I was in primary school, perhaps the occasional math test was unsatisfactory twice. In my mother’s impression, the child was not as good at math as the Chinese at school and was often exposed in conversation. This is the beginning of my preference for liberal arts. Due to not being properly guided, like Chinese, do not like the concept of mathematics continue to strengthen, mediocre mathematics, and do not like math class, so do not like math teachers. On the contrary, a Chinese language course is particularly energetic, active thinking, good writing essay, often praised by teachers, ranking first in class. Rose to high school, and then from the mathematics is not interested in the development of the number of physical and chemical are not interested, although the language, foreign languages such as excellent grades, but failed to admitted to college. It is thought that, if parents do not understand the child’s psychology, often inadvertently bring negative hints to their children. Often this is the case, when you say that this child does not like to talk, then the child may be more reticent; to say that the child is timid would make him more timid, saying that the child does not like vegetables and that he simply