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卢梭在教育名著《爱弥儿》中说:“你知道不知道用什么办法准能使你的孩子得到痛苦?这个方法就是百依百顺。因为有种种满足他欲望的便利条件,所以他的欲望将无止境地增加。结果,你迟早有一天不能不因为无能为力而表示拒绝。但是,由于他平素没有受过你的拒绝,突然碰了钉子,将比得不到他所希望的东西还感到痛苦。”同案例类似的情况还有很多,比如常见的哭闹、不吃饭等,跳楼稍微少见,但不是没有。不记得是哪
Rousseau said in the education masterpiece “Emile”: “You know you do not know what you can expect to make your child suffer? This method is all-encompassing, because of the variety of conveniences that satisfy his desires, Your desire will increase indefinitely, and as a result, one day you will have no choice but to refuse you because you are powerless, but suddenly he has nailed his finger and will feel more than he did not expect . ”There are a lot of cases similar to the case, such as common crying, do not eat, jumping a little uncommon, but not without. I do not remember where