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“两不误” 事件:母亲要洗衣服,孩子要玩球,怎么办?母亲背着背筐,边洗衣服,边让孩子投球。孩子高兴地告诉母亲:“妈妈,球进了!”汗流满面的母亲费力地回头叫道:“好!再来一个。”可怜天下慈母心! 分析:做家长的总怕孩子受委屈,怕他们会经受挫折与艰辛,但挫折与艰辛总是无法避免的,与其让孩子将来在毫无准备的情况下承受痛苦,不如让他在小时候就有一些受委屈和挫折的体验,这就好比在精神上
“Two not wrong ” incident: Mother to wash clothes, children want to play ball, what to do? Mother carrying back baskets, while washing clothes, let the children pitching. The child is pleased to tell her mother: “mom, the ball into! ” Sweaty mother asked laboriously shouted: “good! Come again. ” Poor world kind mother! Analysis: parents are always afraid of children Wronged, afraid they will suffer setbacks and hardships, but setbacks and hardships are always unavoidable, rather than allowing them to suffer in the future unprepared, let him have some grievances and setbacks experience as a child, which Like in spirit