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你遇到过这样的情况吗? 有时你在埋头看书、写东西,或者做别的什么事情,你的妻子下班回来了。她见了你,就没头没脑而又滔滔不绝地诉说她在单位里的烦恼。她讲得那么认真,以致你想中断她的话头,都觉得十分困难。这时,你怎么办呢? 办法无非是三种。一是赚她烦。她确实也有点烦。没头没脑的话,在你听来索然无味,可是她却讲得津津有味。你听不进去,或许你的思绪还在原来的注意中心里驰骋,而她的并不精彩的话语又偏要改变你的思维天地。于是你不耐烦了,很可能这样对她说:“别烦了,没见我正在做事吗!”或者是发出“讲简单点好吗”的“命令”。你的态度使她感到扫兴,有时干脆就不再对你讲下去,
Have you encountered such a situation? Sometimes you are reading, writing something or doing something else, and your wife is coming home from get off work. When she saw you, she said nothing about her troubles in her unit. She felt so serious that you tried to interrupt her speech and found it very difficult. At this time, how do you do? There are three ways. First, make her tired. She really is annoying. Undisputed words, in your hearing boring, but she speaks relish. You can not listen to it, perhaps your thoughts are still in the original attention center gallop, and her not very good discourse and partial to change your thinking world. So you are impatient, it is likely to say to her: “Do not bother, did not see what I was doing! ” Or “ ” Your attitude disappointed her, and sometimes simply will not go on with you,