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一些家长对孩子百依百顺或过分放纵,其结果便会直接造就孩子的过度攻击性。 经常观察一些暴力行为的儿童,会不知不觉中将自己放在施暴者同样的地位。因此,如果孩子已经表现出攻击性过强的倾向,家长需要反思自己的行为。 “中国城市独生子女人格发展状况”课题报告显示,大多数独生子女的攻击需要比较强烈。表现出好主动出击、喜欢公开批评他人、好开别人的玩笑、拒绝与自己不和的人交往、喜欢报复、易为小事发怒等不良人格特征。这是一个非常值得重视的问题。儿童人格发展现状不仅会影响到未来社会的隐定和发展,而且会给儿童自身的成长发展带来巨大影响,而攻击性人格恰恰是反社会行
Some parents are obedient or overly indifferent to their children, and the result is a direct over-aggressive child. Children who regularly observe some violence will unconsciously place themselves in the same position as the abuser. Therefore, parents need to reflect on their behavior if they have shown aggressive attitudes. The report of the project entitled “Development of the Personality of Chinese Only-Children in Cities” shows that most single-child attacks require more intense force. Showing good initiative, like to openly criticize others, so as to openly joke, refuse to deal with their own disagreeable people, like retaliation, easy to get angry and other negative personality traits. This is a very worthwhile question. The status quo of children’s personality development will not only affect the future social stability and development, but also will have a huge impact on the children’s own growth and development, and aggressive personality is precisely anti-social behavior