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5月的某天,我接到了一个咨询电话。对方是一位年轻的母亲。她的声音清脆,但又带有一丝担忧与焦虑。她说,她担心儿子有心理问题。因为儿子在班上的人际关系很不好,常常跟同学起冲突。她和孩子的老师已经进行了很长时间的沟通与协调,对他进行教育和开导,但是成效甚微。所以,她满怀期望带着儿子过来进行心理咨询,希望能在专业心理咨询师的帮助下让孩子能有所好转,拥有一个良好的人际关系。两天后,这位母亲带着她的儿子如约而至。我首先跟母亲简单沟通了一下,了解了情况以后,就跟明明进行咨询。他提到,班上有几个成绩很差的同学总是有事没事就去招惹他,他很生气,就与同学发生冲突,然后同学们就会孤立他。这让他很不开心。我感觉他是蛮孤独的,而且有点自卑。其实,他为何有这种心理状态,要从他的家庭成长环境开始追溯起。
One day in May, I received a call. The other is a young mother. Her voice was crisp, but with a hint of anxiety and anxiety. She said she was worried about her son’s psychological problems. Because of his son’s poor interpersonal skills in class, he often clashed with his classmates. She and her child’s teacher have been communicating and coordinating for a long time, educating and enlightening him, but with little success. Therefore, she is full of hope with her son over the psychological counseling, hoping to help children with the help of professional counselors can have some improvement, have a good relationship. Two days later, the mother came as her son. First of all, I simply communicated with my mother for a moment, and after I understood the situation, I just consulted plainly. He mentioned that there are a few bad classmates in the class who always invite something to provoke him. He is angry and clashes with his classmates. Then the classmates will isolate him. This made him very unhappy. I feel he is quite lonely, but also a little inferiority. In fact, why he has such a state of mind, we should start from his home environment began to trace back.