以成人的姿态备战高考

• 作 者: 张兴博
• 出 处: 高校招生
• 发表日期: 2014年10期
• 关键词: 文理分科 发展心理学 成人礼 我自己 志于学 心理发展 考具 对我说 思维过程 伙伴们

人的生涯发展有很多关键的节点,在这些节点上往往伴随着重要的仪式。以我自己为例,小学一年级在操场角落面向国旗戴上红领巾的那一幕让我知道光荣的意义;初中二年级办理了身份证之后,我开始有意识地要求自己独立处理很多事情,包括择校、文理分科甚至选择和什么样的人交往。很多学校会为步入高三的同学们策划举办18岁成人礼活动。孔子十有五而志于学,对于当今学子而言依然有相当的启发。从发展心理学的角度而言,这是一个相对尴尬的年龄。

There are many key nodes in the development of a person’s life, and important nodes are often accompanied by important rituals. In my own case, for example, I was glorified for the fact that the first grade of primary school was wearing a red scarf on the national flag at the corner of the playground. After I was a sophomore in junior high school, I began to consciously ask myself to handle many things independently, including school selection , Arts and science sub-division or even choose what kind of person interaction. Many schools plan 18-year-old adult ceremonies for students in their third year of high school. Confucius is full of five and interested in learning, for today’s students still have considerable inspiration. From a developmental psychology point of view, this is a relatively awkward age.